2015年5月8日星期五

十招教你讓復雜的決定簡單化

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You make decisions every day, all day long. With all of that practice, why is it so easy to get hung up on the biggies?

你每天每個時刻都在做出各種決定。有瞭那麼多的實踐,為什麼在這些狗屎事情上還那麼猶豫不決?

Snooze button or wake right up?

(鬧鐘響時)再小睡一會還是馬上起床?

Shower or bath?

淋浴還是泡澡?

Coffee or tea?

咖啡還是茶?

Button down shirt, or pull-over?

帶扣的襯衣,還是套衫?

Cereal or fruit?

麥片粥還是水果?

That's a lot to think about all before breakfast. Those are not examples of complicated decisions. In fact, we can usually make those choices without a list of pros and cons, or giving them too much thought.

早餐前要考慮的事情很多,這些不是復雜的決定。事實上,無需列出利弊清單或者想太多我們就做瞭選擇。

What happens when you need to make a big decision? The trick is to apply some of your gut instincts that you use in your daily, simple decision making to the big choices too. You know what's best for you and your family, and once you start to trust that, you will make better decisions faster.

當你需要做出重大決定時會怎樣?下面這些技巧使用瞭你每天都用到的本能直覺,簡單的判斷也能做好重大的選擇。 一旦你相信這一點----即你清楚什麼是對你和傢庭最好的,你將會更快更好地做出決定。

10 Steps to Simplify a Complicated Decision

10個步驟讓復雜的決定簡單化

1. Be debt free

Money will play into most of the choices you make. If you don't have debt, you can put less emphasis on the financial element of your decision.

不要欠債

你所做的大多數選擇都涉及金錢。如果不欠債,就能減少金錢因素的權重。

2. Don't ask everyone about what you should do.

If you ask 5 people to give you their opinion, you will get 5 different answers. That input will lead to second guessing and confusion. Consult the people who will be directly affected by your decision and let everyone else know what you've decided, with confidence.

不要挨個去問所有人你該怎麼做

問5個人,你會得到5個不同的答案,這些會導致二次猜測和困擾。和受決定直接影響的人商量, 其他的人,隻要信心滿滿的告訴他們“哥已經這樣決定瞭”就行瞭

3. High/Low

What is the best thing and worst thing about each choice? Is the best thing worth putting up with the worst things?

高與低

每種選擇最好和最壞的結果是什麼? 最好的結果值得你去冒最壞的後果的風險嗎?

4. Call it

You may take time to actually make your decision, but when presented with the choice, your gut/heart/intuition or whatever it is that speaks to you, will give you an immediate answer. Write it down. That written answer could be the tie breaker.

喚醒第六感覺

也許真的做出決定要花費些時間,但當面對選擇時,你的勇氣/心靈/直覺或者其它什麼會立即給你一個答案。把它記下來,也許就是關鍵。

5. Be grateful for the opportunity

If you see your options as a burden instead of an opportunity, you may not choose wisely. Once you realize how fortunate you are to have the choice put in front of you, you can act accordingly.

心懷感激,因為你還能有的選

如果把可以的選擇當做負擔而不是機會,你可能難以做出明智的選擇。 但當你意識到面前還有選擇是多麼的幸運,你的行動也會同樣幸運。


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